Category Archives: Midlife and Beyond

The Trump Challenge: Continue Walking in Love

The Trump Challenge: Continue Walking in Love

Half of us are hurting and half of us are celebrating. While the red-hat party is going on next door, let’s gather our tribe over here. Here’s the message, Loves. Keep on keeping on. Keep on loving. Keep on holding open doors (literal and metaphorical). And when the doors remain closed, keep on pounding those… Continue Reading

Compassion Learned: Self- and Others

So this is how it happens. Now I know. Several times a year, a story will rack up tens of thousands of social media shares amongst special needs families and our greater community. Some child or young adult will have been asked to leave an establishment because someone deems them scary, or dangerous, or whatever.… Continue Reading

Details. It’s in the Details

Details. It’s in the Details

As I locked the back door, I heard the sudden ssshushh in the tops of the deciduous forest behind my condominium. What was that? A storm signaling? Like that day and the days before it and the days before those, it was another hot one in August. I put my keys and wallet into the… Continue Reading

Graduation to the Real World: See and Hear Us

Graduation to the Real World: See and Hear Us

It’s Pomp and Circumstance time. Many of my peers are celebrating the graduation of their sons and daughters from high school and a forthcoming path to college. Or, they’re cheering them on as they walk across the stage of their soon-to-be college alma mater. If Grace’s life had of followed a path of neurotypical development,… Continue Reading

Independence Day Nowhere in Sight & A Blog Update

Independence Day Nowhere in Sight & A Blog Update

At our old, round, love-worn pine table, backlit by the kitchen window, she sat crisscross, her purple manicured toes up to her mid-calves bare to the winter chill. For days during our snow, sleet, rain, stop-and-go late January through mid February, we’d been telepathing each other. Her letting me know with a long stare what she wanted… Continue Reading